Positions - doggy This position allows deep penetration and the animal instinct in everyone is brought to the fore.

Be warned: men do tend to ejaculate quite quickly in this position so if you’re after a long session, maybe go for another position.

Rear entry also allows for stimulation of the G-spot as the penis is in contact with the front wall of the vagina. Clitoral stimulation has to be performed with the hands. Women can indulge in fantasies in this position as they can’t see their partner and the man can see his penis doing the work which is a turn on for him.

Carpet burns can be a hazard with this one but a little planning can overcome that problem.

Ahh, control. Sometimes it seems that sex is all about control, and so much of that sexual control is all about the man, and how he exercises it. That is what makes women-on-top positions so revolutionary in some ways. It is a chance for both parties to switch roles and try something new.

Having your women on top can take many different forms, all of which are discussed in the following sections, but what makes the biggest difference from other sexual positions is the control that the women have in these sexual endeavors. There is a general assumption that men have all the power in sex and that practicing women-dominant sexual position is somehow a completely female power issue. But if you look more closely it is clearly noted that in many ways giving up some of the responsibility for pleasure in bed can give men a break, and a chance to lie back and enjoy the ride. Instead of worrying about lasting and thrusting and making sure that your women orgasms, being on the bottom and in a less active role, can let men focus on their breathing and their pleasure.

At precisely the same moment this means that women, who, for the most part have always been at the mercy of their lover to achieve pleasure, can charge forward in search of their orgasm. They can position their lover’s penis so that it hits all their hot spots, or so that they can grind their man’s pelvis against their clitoris. By taking control of their sexuality women can sometimes be able to enjoy it more and more likely get what they are looking for from the sexual experiences. Women on our panel have suggested that a man that loves to ridden or at least enjoys more women dominated sexual positions, can gain access to secret sexual desires far more than a selfish lover. Listen up boys, this is for you as much as it is for her.

Acrobat Sex Position

An extreme form of the rodeo position, the acrobat is a very intimate transition from its more common cousin. The easiest way to get into the acrobat position is to have the giver lie down on their back then have their partner lie down backwards from the rodeo position. One side note; unlike the rodeo position, the acrobat requires the giver to take over stroking duties.

Cowgirl Sex Position

A great modification of the armchair position, fusion allows for much greater penetration mobility, and thus increases the pleasure. To get into the position, the giver sits in a straight legged position while their partner sits on top of them while leaning back. Although it tends to tire the arms of the receiver, the position is a blast while their muscles are still fresh.

Asian Cowgirl Sex Position

The Asian cow girl position is basically the same position as the regular cowgirl except that the receiver, plants their feet instead of kneeling. Although not a big deal for the young and nimble, this position can be extremely difficult and tiring for many receivers, so their partner should offer some support using their hands whenever possible. A very popular twist to the regular cow girl position, it is definitely a must try for those that can!

Inverted Missionary Sex Position

The inverted missionary is exactly what it sounds like, the missionary position with the receiver on top and the giver on top. Getting into the position is very easy; the giver just lies back on the bed and has the receiver lay on top of them. Variations in the positioning of the receiver’s upper body can also allow for body kissing, breasts, neck, or sternum, so feel free to move around and experiment.

Rodeo Sex Position

If you and your partner have struggled with slipping out in the cowgirl position, then the “reversed grain” of the rodeo should reduce this irritating occurrence at the possible expense of clitoral stimulation. In a quick nutshell, the rodeo position is simply cowgirl with the receiver facing the opposite way the receiver. Although the receiver no longer presents their breasts / chest to their partner for easy access, they provide great access and a great view to the receiver’s rear end.

Seesaw Sex Position

A very intimate position, the seesaw will definitely bring you and your partner closer. To get into this position, the giver sits up with his legs straight while their partner sits on top of them with legs planted on either side. Although movement is limited, don’t underestimate the passion that can be experienced using it.

If you ever needed a reason to do those push ups that you said you were going to do after new years, or go to the gym more often or even get to that strange yoga class your mom keeps telling you about, here it is. Standing positions in sex can be some of the most enjoyable and most athletic aspects of sexual relations that you may engage in. This is certainly the more advanced part of sex and at the same time can be made easy with some easy attention paid to exercise and health.

Someone on our staff once asked me: “why would I want to go through all that work having sex while standing up, when I enjoy it lying down just fine!” Well, there is a lot of validity to this question. Why bother? Spontaneity is one good reason. Practicing upright sex opens the door to fooling around with your lover in a deserted bus stop, the bathroom at your favorite restaurant or even at 30 000 feet in a lavatory.

Aside from spontaneous sex our panel of women experts all agreed that having sex with a man that can have sex standing up means that changing positions for other types of sex becomes much easier. If you understand how to lift and shift and thrust then you will be far more comfortable maneuvering your lover about a session of sexual enjoyment. There is lots of sensuality in throwing a lover around the room, and being able to get rough against the wall, or even hold her off the ground while you have sex. The increase in blood flow from this type of athletic sex can be incredibly stimulating and erotic. It also can make men feel powerful and make women feel engulfed, these power relations can give a whole new dynamic to your sex life.

For whatever reason standing sex appeals to you, whether it be more exercise, greater sexual improvisation, or even just to make sex more fun, it is one more feather to add to the adventurous lover’s cap.

Stand up for your rights, I promise you won’t regret it.

Bodyguard Sex Position

The bodyguard is a rear-entry position with all the intensity of doggy style, with the connectivity of a side-by-side position, and with the eroticism that comes with the uniqueness of all of the standing positions. To get in this position, the receiver simply stands in front and is penetrated from behind.

This position is especially good in allowing both partners access to touch and caress each other’s bodies, so make sure to keep those hands occupied! The only difficult part of this sex position is aligning the genitals… which can be quite a problem for some couples. The easiest fixes are: standing on a stair, foot stool, couch cushion, or if you are up to it, maybe some heels.

Dancer Sex Position

A unique twist on the missionary position, the dancer is a lot of fun if you are looking for something with more face to face contact. Both partners simply stand facing each other, the receiver raises one of their legs to give easier access while their partner helps support it. If the receiver is very flexible, you may want to try putting the raised leg onto the shoulder of the giver for an even more erotic experience.

Stand and Carry Sex Position

This is not for the feint of heart, or arm, or legs, or back, so… if the giver is middle aged and not in great shape, then may want to skip this position. There are two common ways to get into the stand and carry position; the safer being to stand into it from a position like delight and the more difficult method is to get into it from a standing position like the dancer. Which ever method you choose, remember to stay within your limits as one joy ride isn’t worth the rest of your life with back problems!

“What is your favorite Sexual Position?” After asking almost a hundred single people on the streets of New York City this simple question, we received a resounding answer. Oral Sex! We all love it. Men or women, doesn’t matter, we like to sit back and have our naughty bits serviced. For women the reasons seem to be because a good percentage of the ladies can’t reach climax without the direct clitoral stimulation that comes from oral sex by their man. For the men the enjoyment seems more psychological. Men like the fact that they are in control and have power, they also are just lazy and sometimes the fact that there is no pressure to please their partner can let them relax and simple enjoy the ride.

Inspite of this when we asked people “what’s you favorite position for giving oral?” we got a lot of blank looks. It was then that we realized most people think that there is just one way to give their partner a little “lip lovin’?” The truth is that there are lots of ways to give your partner that special kiss. From multiple types of 69ing to positioning different ways to insert the penis in the mouth, or more efficient ways to access the clitoris, there are a million ways to get that special someone to “suck you off.”

The most important part of trying different oral positions is that it can make an “oral” lover out of your “normal” lover. Some women dislike the way a penis feels in their mouth and the same is true for the guys out there. By trying different ways to put your mouth on that special someone, you may not only find different ways to give and receive pleasure, but also to overcome a general dislike of the act itself.

So here is how to turn “head” on its…er…head!

69 Sex Position

If you weren’t sure what it was, this is it people. This is considered one of the best oral intercourse positions as it allows both partners to stimulate each other at the same time. Either partner can be on top, but performing fellatio is significantly more difficult when in the bottom position… just remember not to forget to stop and enjoy being on your sides between switching!

Sitting Fellatio Sex Position

If men had to choose one way to spend the rest of their lives, this would probably be it. It combines their two greatest pleasures in life: receiving oral sex and sitting. The receiving partner simply sits back while their partner performs oral from a kneeling or lying position. Although not overly intimate, it is a great treat for your partner… when they deserve it. Performing it in a car is also possible, but we recommend that you pull over to help keep the roads a safer place. Note: not everyone likes to have thier head palmed while they are performing, so if your partner doesn’t like this, its in your best interest not to… if you have to do something, help keep their hair out of their mouth :).

Standing Fellatio Sex Position

Incredibly versatile in terms of locations it can be performed, frequent visits to the standing fellatio position are a part of every man’s ideal life. The receiver simply stands or leans against a wall while their partner performs oral on them from a kneeling position. The position offers great access to the receiver’s scrotum and anus, if they are ok with some anal play.

Scarf Sex Position

In the scarf oral sex position, the receiving partner lays on their back with their legs over the edge resting on the shoulders of their performing partner. This position is a big hit for its high level of comfort and additional hand stimulation that can be provided. If you are trying to fit on a couch, you may want to lower one of the legs, changing the position to what we at sexinfo101.com call the half scarf.